its one of the most debated topics ever, almost everyone has argued about it. yes dear readers, today im going 2 talk abt, as quoted in d title; couple.
its normal fr teenagers n young adults alike to hv that special someone, a person who they cn rely on, a person who, when faced with difficulties will be there to comfort them, a person to share similar interests with, and d list goes on. i remembered my 1st couple, it was during form 4 (or as quoted by some, the “honeymoon year” :D). i wasnt expecting it really, i even told my friends during form 3 that i wont be having a girlfriend until i graduated frm secondary school, but then being an average normal teenager full of emotions and hormones, who am i to resist such temptation of having a special someone? ha3
boy it felt great. it was like being d luckiest boy alive. we had our little chit chats now and then, exchanged love letters, one of my love poems even reached d hands of my homeroom teacher once :P it was really good having that special someone who cares fr u as much as u care fr them. until one day, everything was about to change.
we had a little misunderstanding, as all couples do. unfortunately being young and immature at that time has its disadvantages; u act according to emotions without thinking about all d possible solutions. in the end we broke up, all that love and joy shattered by one sentence. sadly enough, it didnt even last a year.
however this post isnt intended to tell the world about my blissful love story, nor am i begging fr sympathy as to what happened in the end, but im going to share abt my life -after- d joy and sorrow.
life had to go on. seriously, it wasnt easy recovering frm a break up. weeks turn into months before i finally found my sense of living again (ceh over dramatik plak ha3), but yes in d end i did manage to stand up and walk with my own two feet again. it was at that time, around mid form 5, that i finally realize what i really wanted.
of course i wanted a companion, but not in d way i did before. of course i would want a loving and caring person by my side, but at d same time i wanted it to be eternal. in other words, a relationship linked by a halal matrimony :)
some people may argue as to why im still single to this day, despite being close to certain people of the opposite sex. why not just be a couple? they say. truth is, i dont feel like im ready. once u grow older u start to appreciate d real meaning of a relationship. its not just about having someone to be by your side anymore. its being committed to an institution, a family. its about taking care of not only that special someone, but also taking care of other special ones coming your way. until i have a career, until i can manage my own life, it will be until then till i start being committed to a special someone..
p/s: they say only fairytales hv happy endings. in my case, u hv d right to choose ur ending. sure we broke up, but we still maintain a great friendship to this day ;)
update 4/2/2013: i’m taken :)
4 thoughts on “couple”
wut a nice post u did~!
yeah, its gewd 2 think of an eternal relationship rather than doin’ da scandal2 things, isnt it?
main point dy one paragraph je, yg len smua bunga2. betul la ckp ko, ayat novel hu3
kjiwangan ko agk tserlah la pas ak baca post ni.
ak manusia normal gk :)